“Commitment is doing
the thing you said you were going to do long after the mood you said it in has
left you.”
I went skiing a couple weekends ago with my wife and a
couple friends. One of my friends had this cool new massage gun. It’s like a
jigsaw with a rubber ball on the end of it and it pummels your sore muscles
into submission. It was fantastic after a long day on the mountain! But I
noticed that pretty quickly after we started using it, it lost a bit of oomph.
When you pressed it into your leg, it would slow down and sound like it was
struggling. The force waned.
In last
month’s post on point #5 I talked about execution and the rubber meeting
the road. When you actually get down to
it and start doing the work, sometimes you experience that pushback, that
slowing down. In thinking about our topic for this month I thought about how
this can parallel our motivation and our drive to achieve our goals. We start
out the year bright eyed and bushy tailed with all the best intentions. As we get
into it, as we start to work, as we attack our goals, the reality of the
situation sets in. Those sales aren’t going to make themselves. Those weights
aren’t going to lift themselves. People don’t just beat a path to our door with
their credit cards out, begging us to take their money (if this is in fact
happening for you, please let me know so I can invest in your business!) There
will be obstacles. This is where the proverbial rubber meets the road. Unfortunately,
the data shows that most
people will abandon their goals by January 19th! What will you do?
Will you succumb to the obstacles? Will you cave under pressure? Or will you
stay committed? Stay the course. Do what you set out to do? Here are some
tips from Will Smith on how to stay disciplined.
This year I set a few running goals and one of them is to
run 2020 miles in 2020. In order to do that I’ve gotta put in a lot of daily miles
and be consistent and committed to my goal. After a long day of skiing, or a
long day of work, I might not feel very motivated to lace up my running shoes
and go out for a run, but I do it anyway. I’m happy to say that as of today, I have
run every day this year. As of the publishing of this article I’m over 168
miles for the year, on track for my goal of 2020 miles in 2020.
Take stock of where you are at this point in the year. It’s
still early and there’s plenty of time to compensate for any slow start in
January. Remember to stay focused and stay consistent. I’d love to hear from
you about your struggles and your successes thus far!
We are a high quality B2B networking organization dedicated to helping you identify your ideal strategic partners and facilitate the relationship building process.