It's better to give than to receive. At least that's what I remember my parents saying around Christmas time when I was younger. And in a lot of situations I agree 100%! It doesn't mean, however, that you shouldn't also like to receive.
When it comes to referrals I actually do get more enjoyment out of connecting people and giving referrals than I do from getting them. But a funny thing happens when you give referrals... people want to help you in return. There's something about people that makes us want to return favors. Maybe it's that we don't like the feeling of being indebted to someone else. Not that the other person expects us to return the favor, but I think we mostly feel like we want to or ought to. Whatever it is, it is.
So get out there and give, give, give! Pass referrals to everyone in your chapter right now! I know you know someone that you could introduce to each and every one of the members. You might have to think about it for a minute but they will return the favor. Imagine what a difference it would make for you if you received 10 - 15 quality referrals today! It would be huge! So make the first move and help someone else out! I promise, you will feel great about it, and it will come back around!
Here's a step by step instruction video on how to pass referrals through the website. How To Pass Referrals